How do we raise our children

How do we raise our children without hitting

Hit the child :

    The beating method is one of the worst methods used in raising children. It affects them in a seriously negative way and makes them aggressive and angry, so correct educational methods must be sought to raise our children. They are honest in our necks, and they are the future generation who will build a society and make it coherent and strong.

    The methods of education vary between agreeing with Islamic law and following the advice of the educational counselors, and the best thing remains to follow the two methods together, as they are very close to each other, and that the education falls on the mother more than the father; And beating while raising them.

Ways to punish a child when he is mistaken:

There are several divorces to punish the surety when he makes a mistake:

      -  Use the deprivation method, such as depriving him of his personal expenses for a day or more, or depriving him of one of his favorite games.

      -  Make him do one of the household chores as a form of punishment, and one of those chores is removing waste to a specific place.

      -  Staying away from him and not talking to him for several hours or until a whole day, that makes the child always thinking how to make his parents talk to him, and apologize to them, and if he does not apologize, the parents after the punishment period has passed should sit with their child and talk to him about the mistake that he made, and its negative effects on him And at home completely.

      -  Giving gifts and toys to the child when he does a useful job, as this causes him to increase those actions and avoid the wrong and harmful actions.

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Methods of raising a child :

      -  A lot of hugging the child and calling him the names he loves, and also telling him permanently that we love you, and we want him among us, and many words of positive psychological impact on him.

      -  Enhancing the child's self-confidence, such as making him speak at all times and places without preventing him or hitting him, as this strengthens his personality and formation.

      -  Accustoming the child to good habits that are of moral benefit to parents and society, such as speaking in a refined manner away from bad words, and helping others financially and morally, these characteristics are acquired by the child from his parents.

      -  Accustom the child to apologize and utter the word sorry when he makes a mistake, and that is done if he sees family members apologizing to each other when they make a mistake.

      -  Postponing some of the requests that the child requests for a day or two, and sometimes his request should not be brought, so that he learns that life does not secure everything he needs quickly, and this helps him in the future greatly, so he knows the meaning of contentment and lack of greed.

      -  Avoid comparing the child with other children, as this will lead to building a spirit of hatred and hatred in the same child that affects him when he grows up so he wishes evil to all people.

      -  Talking to the child continuously, and talking to him about the things that mean him, such as games, and cartoon films, that makes the parents close to him, and if he makes a mistake, he comes to them and confesses what he did.