Relashionship : The commitment

RelationShip: The commitment

    One of the main signs that the couple has shared power and is ready to enter the fourth phase of their evolution is that it has now become easier for them to say "I love you". During the power struggle, "I love you" was often smothered by "I hate you". During this phase, saying "I love you" meant giving more power to the other. The "I love you" of the third phase no longer has the same meaning as the "I would eat you" of fusional passion. Rather, it means "I agree".

   "I now know your faults and your qualities, your strengths, and your weaknesses, and I accept them, even if sometimes ..."
"You are no longer the beautiful charming princess I dreamed of, you are no longer the prince charming and strong of my dreams, your body has even stood the test of time, but I am so good with you. "

    "I know your needs and expectations a little better vis-à-vis Us and I am committed to doing everything to satisfy them; we know very well that I will not succeed, but I know that you will appreciate my efforts. "

    "I don't want to change you anymore, I accept you as you are. "

    "You are not the ideal partner, I could have lived with someone else, but I am happy with the path that We have traveled and I want to continue to grow old with this We."

The "I love you" of the fourth phase means "I love us". The two lovers have become real accomplices. It is at this stage that one should enter into marriage and not at the time of blinding passion.